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These examples written for every scenario make it a little easier for you to express your sympathies during what can be a difficult time. Remember, these are only examples and are only meant as a guide. They're meant to be modified and not copied exactly. Try and tailor the messages to your specific situation. You'll feel better about this and so will the bereaved.